So I decided to set up a day 2 with the blonde girl form Saturday. I text her on Sunday to set everything up and then followed up on Monday to make sure that we were still on. The original plan was to go straight from work, use the excuse to bring her to my place to change, and then bang.
This is how it went down: I picked her up right after work. Parked at my complex. Gave excuse to change and took her into my apartment. The ride to the pad, I could kind of tell that it wasn’t going to go down. She was a little standoffish and I could tell she didn’t remember how awesome I was.
When we get in my apartment, I tried escalating a little and it wasn’t on at all. We hadn’t kissed yet (on the day 2 – we did at the club, but state was pumped and a little drunk, things aren’t as on again yet) and I could tell she needed to warm up to me again.
I changed and we headed to Las Hadas (my favorite place for day 2s because awesome food/drink specials, its right around the corner from my place, and the owners son is a cool as dude – always happy and whatnot).
We get there and shoot the shit for a bit. I turn the conversation sexual and ask her if she’s ever been tied up (she has). The conversation stays pretty sexual, I get her to tell me her favorite positions, some of her fantasies, what she wants to do, etc.
She tells me that she stopped having sex on the first date. HA. I tell her lets pay the bill and head to Ralph’s because I wanna grab a handle of vodka and then head back to my place for some Jenga.
We grab the vodka and head back to my place. We play a game of Jenga and after a little bit, I get bored and lose on purpose, making it seem like she won legit. I take her hand and lead her upstairs to my bed, “Let me show you my kingdom!”
As we’re walking upstairs, she tells me again that she’s still sticking to her ‘no sex on the first date’ rule. Again, I just ignore it. Push her on my bed. Make-out with her; take off her clothes and proceed to put my penis inside of her.
We fuck for a good 20 minutes and then head back downstairs to sing “Mirrors” by Justin Timberlake and try to get the dance moves down to “It’s gonna be me.”
I drop her off and then hit up my buddy to go out. It’s Monday night and usually everywhere sucks, but I guess the new club in town brought in Berlin Dash and the club is bumping.
I found out on Saturday that I know one of the main bouncers there and I decide to attempt to get in. Unfortunately the dude is not working and apparently they are at capacity. Oh well, we don’t need to get inside to beast on a bitches. We decide to head elsewhere and return upon closing time.
As we head up, we see a three set at the corner. My buddy opens up two and I take the third. Quick introductions and then she says she’s hungry. Immediately suggest the pizza place right up the street.
I push for it; she’s down; her friends aren’t and try to protest. I push harder; they become down.
We grab pizza with the three girls. The entire time I am building strong report with my girl. She tells me multiple times that she has a boyfriend and that she thinks I’m really cute/awesome/etc., but nothing is going to go down.
After we eat, the two girls my boy is occupying decide to take a taxi. My girl parked down the street and asks me to walk her to her car. She tells me where her car is and starts walking the opposite direction.
I stop her and explain to her what she’s doing (new in town) and tell her that I live a lot closer than her car and that I can just give her a ride.
The entire time, I had absolutely no focus on banging her. My focus was solely on the next step directly ahead. Walk to my place > get keys from house > give ride.
We get to my place and I walk her up, show her around. I show her my balcony and explain the dynamics between my roommate & I (we live in a loft and have certain sections blocked off for privacy).
She asks to see my area and I take her upstairs to my bed. She sits; I lay down and then she follows. We start making out and I get on top of her. She asks me if I have a condom. Of course I do….
Things start getting a little heavier and she starts unzipping my pants and tells me that I should probably get the condom.
I do. She takes off her pants and underwear. I wrap it up and proceed to insert my penis into her vaginal canal.
Half way through fucking (maybe 5 minutes or so in), she freaks out and says that she can’t do it and gets up to put on her clothes.
I follow her around and say its cool, not a big deal. She keeps apologizing and telling me how sexy/cute/awesome I am. I’m like…. Uh derr.
I tell her I feel used. And she continues to apologize and then leaves after gathering her all of her belongings.
Whateves. I get my clothes together and head back out. Still a few things out and about to hit up, but don’t feel as motivated since I just banged two girls. I wing my boy for a bit, but eventually head back home to sleep.